Bounderies for single dating
I’ve observed countless situations where someone pretended to be serious about God just to be in a relationship with an Apostolic guy or girl. However, you should spend more time making sure you’re everything that you should be.
In those situations, the entire relationship is built on a lie. Dating someone into the Church is a bad idea – the happily ever after success stories are extremely rare. Why would you be attracted to someone who isn’t Holy Ghost filled, holy, and zealous about their faith? You won’t attract the right kind of person if you aren’t working to be the right kind of person.
How can you have anything truly in common with someone who isn’t in full agreement with the most defining aspect of your life (Amos 3:3, 2 Corinthians -17, 1 Corinthians , 2 Timothy 3:5)?Singles who remove this boundary are dodging godly counsel. Talk about hopes, dreams, plans, goals, and aspirations.When dating, singles should ask lots and lots of questions. Find out if they are growing spiritually or dying spiritually.Many moons ago, before I met the beautiful red-headed superwoman of my dreams, I was in Bible College and attending a very large church.That’s only relevant because there were hundreds of Apostolic girls around my age, but none of them were the “one”.